Conversation about women like springs that never dry, there's always interesting to be a subject of conversation and debate. Women from time to time has its own appeal. He could be a crutch kokohnya a state, but also can be destructive.
In a hadith it is said that the woman is the jewelry world, but the best of the world is a woman's jewelry sholehah. Yups! Women can be a special jewelry, but also, a lot of negative stigma attached to the female figure. Women are often perceived as a weak human being helpless, unproductive, much persecuted, belittled, even often blamed as the seducer of men.
Who does not know the woman? From it was born a generation that is able to knock down the fort vanity tyranny, injustice ransacked the dictator, burned civilization that does not humanize, to build a glorious civilization superiority. However, from a woman born a rebel could also power the Creator, leading opponents keMahaAgungan al-Khaliq al-Mudabbir, crushers glorious civilization. yes, the hands of a woman can be born a PATRIOT or LOSERS.
In the long history of human civilization, a great female figures like Khadija bint Khuwailid is the name that is timeless, or like Aisha, Fatima az-Zahra, Julaikha, Sarah, etc., they are great women in his time.
Or also the world still recognize Eva Braun, who strengthen the tyranny of Hitler? Marie Antoinette, whose corrupt aggrandizement Louis IV? Or the seductress Cleopatra perpetual dictator Julius Caesar and Mark Anthony Roman authorities?
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In April, the discussion about women are more crowded than usual, it could be April is the month of women coz this month that the figure has been born into the spotlight and a byword among women in Indonesia. Kartini, is considered a hero by the name of emancipation. Kartini is female figures berpemikiran far ahead. Kartini for Indonesian women is a private figure battering ram "tradition atmosphere", he is considered as 'liberators' of captivity indigenous women in Indonesia. From this and the onslaught of emancipation among women in Indonesia.
'Confusion' Kartini who want to 'liberate' Indonesian woman seen from his letters addressed to friends in Europe. She wants women in Indonesia have the opportunity to study properly men. Including Kartini desire to continue his studies, especially to Europe, is revealed in his letters. Ideals of Kartini this is interpreted by feminists as a struggle of equalizing the position of women by men.
The struggle of feminists in an attempt mewujukan justice and gender equality continues unabated. They consider that justice and gender equality is a form of resistance or struggle symbol is intended to reach women in various parts of the world.
Should KGG Bill Rejected, Tanya Why ... ?????
KKG idea is an idea that is diametrically opposed to Islam. This idea was born from the womb of secularism which sterilize religion from the public sphere. In a gender perspective, women's oppression that occurred over much influenced by cultural and religious views were considered patriarchal. Then setting the relationship between men and women in all aspects should be kept away from the religious requirements and must be handed over to the man with women's equal participation with men. Here, the creed of secularism and secularisation become an absolute pre-requisite realization of KKG.
There are a number of reasons why we, as believers must reject the bill KKG.
First: the definition of gender in this bill is contrary to the Islamic concept of the role and position of women. In chapter 11 is mentioned about the definition of gender, that: "Gender is a division of roles and responsibilities of men and women is the result of socio-cultural construction that is not permanent and can be learned, and can be exchanged according to time, place, and specific culture of one sex to the other sex. "
The Islamic view regarding this matter is that the tasks, roles, and responsibilities of women and men both in family (domestic space) and in the community (public space) based on the revelation of God, and not everything is a product of culture.
The responsibility of men as heads of households and breadwinners is based on revelation (Qur'an and Sunnah), not a product of culture. Throughout Islamic history, anywhere in the world, the responsibility of men as head of the family has been understood, a matter which is prevalent in the Islamic religion (din minad ma'lumun bid-dharurah). That which becomes the guardian and witness in a marriage is male and not female. It is also already understand.
Because based on the revelation, then the Islamic concept of the division of the roles of men and women it is eternal, across the ages and across cultures.
Second, the bill Gender very western-oriented. Gender equality activists usually think, that what they received from the West - including the concept of gender WHO and UNDP - should be swallowed just like that, because it is universal. They are less critical in view of the fact the history of women in the West and the rise of feminism and gender equality is rooted in "historical trauma" oppression of women in the era of ancient Greece and medieval Christian era dominance.
The concepts of life in the West tend to be extreme. They used to oppress women freely, now they liberate women freely.
Look, now family-style concept of gender equality that gives total freedom and equality between men and women has led to social problems that are very complicated. In Germany, in 2004, a survey showed, the population growth of minus 1.9. Thus, babies born less than the number of dead. Rising divorce rate, depression western women also increased, because the one hand they have to play a role in the public sphere to be equal with men, while on the other hand their female instincts are still there and wants to take care of the family, where the heavy burden of their erstwhile western women want 'liberated.'
Western civilization is also regard women as individual beings. While Islam puts women as part of the family. For this reason, in Islam there is the concept of guardianship. When married, the guardian of the women who marry; not a woman who married herself. This is one form of pernyerahan responsibility to the husband. In the West, the concept of this kind is not known. Therefore, not surprisingly, when gender activists are usually very active Questioning the concept of this guardianship. To the extent there are states that in the Islamic marriage, that marriage is between man (guardian) with men (groom).
Note how the strong influence of Western eyes in the concept of "gender equality" as stated in Article 1: 2 Gender bill being discussed today: "Gender Equality is the similarity of the condition and position of women and men to have the opportunity to access, participation, control , and the benefits of development in all spheres of life. "(Article 1: 2).
Contemplate this kind of concept. How individualistic. Men and women should be equalized in all areas of life. Then, defined also:
"Discrimination is any form of distinction, exclusion, or restriction, and all forms of violence are made on the basis of a particular gender, which has the effect or purpose to reduce or eliminate the recognition, enjoyment or use of the benefits of human rights and fundamental freedoms in the political, economic , social, cultural, civil or any other field irrespective of marital status, on a basis of equality between women and men. "(article 1: 4).
Third, the bill is very Secular Gender. This bill hereafter discard dimension and the dimension of worship in the interaction between men and women. Secular civilization has no concept of responsibility hereafter. For they all finished in the affairs of this world alone. Therefore, in a secular perspective, "fairness" is only measured from the perspective of the world. For them it is not fair that men and women should not be allowed polygamy polyandry. For them, it is not fair, if the wife out of the house must be permission from a husband, while the husband should leave the house without the wife's consent.
In fact, in Islam has given the gift of height to women. They are burdened with worldly responsibilities smaller than men. But, with that, they could go to heaven, the same as men. Women do not need to be tired so the preacher Friday, a witness in many cases, etc. Women are not required to earn a living for the family. Etc.
Meanwhile, men get a load and a heavy responsibility. Great power is also a big responsibility in the hereafter. When seen in the perspective of eternity, the husband who has more than one wife is certainly heavier responsibility, because he had to prepare reports that more to God. Is wrong if people perceive that the head of state was tasty. The world alone is not necessarily bad, especially in the hereafter. Very heavy responsibility.
In the end, in assessing a concept - such as the concept of Gender Equality - a must choose to put himself: if he was willing to accept Allah as the God who recognized its sovereignty to regulate his life? A Muslim, would not want to follow the footsteps of Satan, which only recognizes the existence of God as God, but refused governed by God.
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Inevitably, the spread of "gender equality" has now become a flagship program in the project liberalization of Islam in Indonesia. Many Islamic organizations that utilize aid funds a number of Western NGOs to work on Muslim women to have understood this gender equality. Muslim women are now encouraged to scramble with men in public land, in all areas. They are given an empty chimera, as if they would be happy if it is able to compete with men.
Only Islam Its Glorifying Women
