Wives, do not worry. As penyeimbangnya, Drs. Muhammad Talib also wrote a book about the lawless behavior of husband to wife. So not only are able ungodly wife, the husband was likely disobedience. If the wife can not sin, the husband was able to sin. His name is man, not free from sin.
1. Do not want to repay the dowry ..
In a hadith mentioned:
In a hadith mentioned Maimonides, from his father, from the Prophet., His saying: "Who laiki male dowry to marry a woman with a little or a lot, but in his heart does not intend to fulfill what they are entitled to him, it means he has mengicuhnya; if he dies before fulfilling the rights of the woman, then later on the Day of Judgment he will meet with God as those who are wicked. "(HR. Thabarani)
In another hadith:
From Abu Hurairah ra., He said: Messenger of Allah sw said: "Those who borrow other people's property and intends to pay it off, then God will help him pay it off; but whoever borrowed the man's treasure was he did not intend to return it, God will destroy him. "(HR. Bukhari and Ibn Majah, etc.)
A husband may menghutang dowry to his wife. Inii debt must be repaid. If not, the destruction of him in the world and torment in the Hereafter.
2. Pulling back the dowry without the wife's pleasure.
Allah says in the Qur'an. An Nisa '(4) paragraph 21:
"And how do you (heart) take (dowry) that when some of you have come together with others as well (your wives) held strong agreement with you."
This verse emphatically denounce attractive husband or reclaim the dowry that had been given to her, either wholly tau interesting part.
3. 3. abandoned wife shopping.
In a hadith mentioned:
From Abdullah bin 'Amr ra., He said: Messenger of Allah said: "A person is deemed innocent enough when abandoned shopping dependents." (HR. Abu Dawud, Nasa'i, and Judge)
Already a religious decree that a husband must provide shopping to eat, drink, and a wife's clothes according to his ability.
4. 4. Violating the requirements of his wife or family.
Mentioned in the following hadith:
"Indeed, the terms of the most entitled to you is to fulfill the requirements that make you kosher intercourse with your wife." (HR. Bukhari - Muslim).
In the life of husband and wife, when a man before editing a woman as his wife had made an agreement on the part of the woman or her family that binds a man to be admitted to the husband of the woman, then such agreements continue to apply upon the man for compliance with the best.
5. 5. Lack provide shelter
QS. Ath-Thalaq (65) paragraph 6:
"Put them (the wives) where you dwell, according to your means; and do not pester them to constrict (heart) them, and if they (the wives who are divorced) was pregnant, then give it to them until they give birth to live on ... "
Husband ordered to provide shelter to his wife according to his ability and is prohibited to endanger the safety of his wife or constrict life troublesome wife.
6. 6. Do not give the wife's sexual needs.
In a hadith mentioned:
"If one of you having sex with his wife, let him do it with sincerity. Then when she completed her needs (satisfied) before his wife get a satisfaction, then he must not rush to revoke (his penis) until his wife discovered his satisfaction. "(HR. Abdur Razaq and Abu Ya'la, from Anas)
There is also mentioned in a hadith:
Messenger of Allah said: "Someone among you do once in a while menyenggama wife like an animal sex, but let him preceded by the hand." Then someone asks: "What the hell's intercession?" He said: "That kiss and a greeting (romantic) . "(HR. Bukhari and Muslim)
7. 7. Menyenggamai wife at the time of menstruation.
Allah says in the Qur'an. Al-Baqarah (2) paragraph 222:
"They ask you about menstruation. Say: "Menstruation is a nuisance. 'Therefore, you shall keep away from women during menstruation; and do not approach them before they are sacred. If they have sacred, then campurilah they were in a place that God commanded thee. Indeed, Allah loves those who repent and loves those who purify themselves. "
Which meant disturbance here are circumstances that make their health impaired due to dirty blood discharge from her womb
There is also mentioned in a hadith:
From Abu Hurairah ra., Indeed the Prophet has said, "Whoever menyenggamai his wife during menstrual periods or menyenggamai the anus or go to shamans, and confirmed the predictions that, then it means he has Kufr to the shari'ah that was revealed to Muhammad. "(HR. Ahmad and Tirmidhi)
In this regard the Prophet align iniquity people menyenggamai his wife at the time of menstruation with someone who believes in the forecast shaman.
8. 8. Treat wife harshly.
In a hadith mentioned:
From Abu Hurairah ra., He said: Messenger of Allah said: "Advise the women well, because they were created from the rib; while the most crooked rib is the top. If you are forced to straighten it, then you will break it; but if you let it, it will continue crooked. Therefore, encourage the good woman. "(HR. Bukhari & Muslim)
A psychological harm should not be especially hurt physically.
9. 9. Let the wife make nushuz.
QS. An-Nisaa '(4) paragraph 34:
"... The women whom you fear disobedience, admonish them and separate themselves from their beds, and beat them. Then if they obey ye seek not a way against them. Allah is Most High, Most Great. "
Nushuz is if the wife do the deeds that are hurting her husband, did not obey him, rejected the husband's needs, traveling without a husband's permission, flirted with another man, or does not maintain the honor and property of her husband. Against such a wife, a husband should be advised, reminding her, and ask her to realize her mistake with the fear of God, because of His doom-doom that will be inflicted upon nushuz wife. The punch in question is a punch that did not hurt the body or upbeat.
10. Inviting wives sin.
In a hadith mentioned:
From Ibn Umar, the Messenger of Allah said: "The three groups that God forbade them to go to heaven: drink liquor, rebellious child against his mother and father, and a husband who did dayyuts, which include acts of immorality into the family." (HR. Nasa'i and Judge)
Dayyutz are committing sins in his own household, for example, allowing the household to be a place sins such as drinking, gambling, and others
1. Do not want to repay the dowry ..
In a hadith mentioned:
In a hadith mentioned Maimonides, from his father, from the Prophet., His saying: "Who laiki male dowry to marry a woman with a little or a lot, but in his heart does not intend to fulfill what they are entitled to him, it means he has mengicuhnya; if he dies before fulfilling the rights of the woman, then later on the Day of Judgment he will meet with God as those who are wicked. "(HR. Thabarani)
In another hadith:
From Abu Hurairah ra., He said: Messenger of Allah sw said: "Those who borrow other people's property and intends to pay it off, then God will help him pay it off; but whoever borrowed the man's treasure was he did not intend to return it, God will destroy him. "(HR. Bukhari and Ibn Majah, etc.)
A husband may menghutang dowry to his wife. Inii debt must be repaid. If not, the destruction of him in the world and torment in the Hereafter.
2. Pulling back the dowry without the wife's pleasure.
Allah says in the Qur'an. An Nisa '(4) paragraph 21:
"And how do you (heart) take (dowry) that when some of you have come together with others as well (your wives) held strong agreement with you."
This verse emphatically denounce attractive husband or reclaim the dowry that had been given to her, either wholly tau interesting part.
3. 3. abandoned wife shopping.
In a hadith mentioned:
From Abdullah bin 'Amr ra., He said: Messenger of Allah said: "A person is deemed innocent enough when abandoned shopping dependents." (HR. Abu Dawud, Nasa'i, and Judge)
Already a religious decree that a husband must provide shopping to eat, drink, and a wife's clothes according to his ability.
4. 4. Violating the requirements of his wife or family.
Mentioned in the following hadith:
"Indeed, the terms of the most entitled to you is to fulfill the requirements that make you kosher intercourse with your wife." (HR. Bukhari - Muslim).
In the life of husband and wife, when a man before editing a woman as his wife had made an agreement on the part of the woman or her family that binds a man to be admitted to the husband of the woman, then such agreements continue to apply upon the man for compliance with the best.
5. 5. Lack provide shelter
QS. Ath-Thalaq (65) paragraph 6:
"Put them (the wives) where you dwell, according to your means; and do not pester them to constrict (heart) them, and if they (the wives who are divorced) was pregnant, then give it to them until they give birth to live on ... "
Husband ordered to provide shelter to his wife according to his ability and is prohibited to endanger the safety of his wife or constrict life troublesome wife.
6. 6. Do not give the wife's sexual needs.
In a hadith mentioned:
"If one of you having sex with his wife, let him do it with sincerity. Then when she completed her needs (satisfied) before his wife get a satisfaction, then he must not rush to revoke (his penis) until his wife discovered his satisfaction. "(HR. Abdur Razaq and Abu Ya'la, from Anas)
There is also mentioned in a hadith:
Messenger of Allah said: "Someone among you do once in a while menyenggama wife like an animal sex, but let him preceded by the hand." Then someone asks: "What the hell's intercession?" He said: "That kiss and a greeting (romantic) . "(HR. Bukhari and Muslim)
7. 7. Menyenggamai wife at the time of menstruation.
Allah says in the Qur'an. Al-Baqarah (2) paragraph 222:
"They ask you about menstruation. Say: "Menstruation is a nuisance. 'Therefore, you shall keep away from women during menstruation; and do not approach them before they are sacred. If they have sacred, then campurilah they were in a place that God commanded thee. Indeed, Allah loves those who repent and loves those who purify themselves. "
Which meant disturbance here are circumstances that make their health impaired due to dirty blood discharge from her womb
There is also mentioned in a hadith:
From Abu Hurairah ra., Indeed the Prophet has said, "Whoever menyenggamai his wife during menstrual periods or menyenggamai the anus or go to shamans, and confirmed the predictions that, then it means he has Kufr to the shari'ah that was revealed to Muhammad. "(HR. Ahmad and Tirmidhi)
In this regard the Prophet align iniquity people menyenggamai his wife at the time of menstruation with someone who believes in the forecast shaman.
8. 8. Treat wife harshly.
In a hadith mentioned:
From Abu Hurairah ra., He said: Messenger of Allah said: "Advise the women well, because they were created from the rib; while the most crooked rib is the top. If you are forced to straighten it, then you will break it; but if you let it, it will continue crooked. Therefore, encourage the good woman. "(HR. Bukhari & Muslim)
A psychological harm should not be especially hurt physically.
9. 9. Let the wife make nushuz.
QS. An-Nisaa '(4) paragraph 34:
"... The women whom you fear disobedience, admonish them and separate themselves from their beds, and beat them. Then if they obey ye seek not a way against them. Allah is Most High, Most Great. "
Nushuz is if the wife do the deeds that are hurting her husband, did not obey him, rejected the husband's needs, traveling without a husband's permission, flirted with another man, or does not maintain the honor and property of her husband. Against such a wife, a husband should be advised, reminding her, and ask her to realize her mistake with the fear of God, because of His doom-doom that will be inflicted upon nushuz wife. The punch in question is a punch that did not hurt the body or upbeat.
10. Inviting wives sin.
In a hadith mentioned:
From Ibn Umar, the Messenger of Allah said: "The three groups that God forbade them to go to heaven: drink liquor, rebellious child against his mother and father, and a husband who did dayyuts, which include acts of immorality into the family." (HR. Nasa'i and Judge)
Dayyutz are committing sins in his own household, for example, allowing the household to be a place sins such as drinking, gambling, and others
